Online dating first date no chemistry
It’s illogical, irrational and out of our conscious control because it works on a primitive level based largely on whether your body wants to get close to theirs (which is why you don’t know if you’ve got it until you meet in person).
The list goes out the window when chemistry walks into our lives and so it should.
On the upside, it means the people you meet are likely to be more compatible with you than some random guy you meet in a bar who you know nothing about.
Most living grown-ups have a history of exes, hang-ups and maybe a nervous breakdown or two. They know that you have a past, but they don’t want to hear about it. Some online dating profiles read like shopping lists.
They’re looking for someone with brown eyes, short hair, between 5’10” and 6′, from north-east Birmingham, and so on. First, they make the writer sound like a control freak.
See it all as experience, not as proof that you’re a loser (or that everyone else is a loser).
Learn from your bad and boring dates and try again.